The wedding season, which includes early spring and later and hopefully a sunny summer with angelic serenity, sees an indefinite number of people taking on the role invited, sometimes with advanced training (more or less welcome) witnesses or bridesmaids.
In truth, you already have at least seventeen wedding invitations for this 2022. It will already be very difficult to organize holidays, leave the children with a nanny and convince a partner to follow us, not to mention if it becomes mandatory. cope with stress even in regards to how to dress.
We’re all full of clothes we thought we didn’t have., or that we just don’t know how to wear on unspecified occasions, oscillating between impeccable dresses and the dress code of “ladies in a long midsummer sunset with a light breeze.” It’s trite to say that each role has its own specific attire, and don’t expect to hide behind the cool branches of a villa’s garden or get tangled up in a room’s upholstery to avoid the worldly chronicles of the very local Lady Whistledown. Weddings are a hodgepodge of forked tongues in elegant dresses.
Whether you have just a couple of weddings or wedding celebrations are a regular practice for you, the main question, including this season, will be to find a solution that allows you to avoid capital costs and still be adequate at the moment. Are there any tricks and strategies? How could I tell you no…
Wedding, guest outfits: super-elegant or discreetly elegant?
Let’s fix: being a guest at a wedding is no longer torture. Indeed, it often means taking the opportunity to have fun (because we all really need it), get dressed (bigger and better than usual) and why not get moved and shed a few warm tears at the sight of real feelings. After all, you don’t just live on Netflix.
From here to understand the true meaning elegance concept I would say that we could meet again in Greek calends. It is useless to buy etiquette manuals from the last century, they will not help you. In an age of chronic narcissism, the only salvation is to try to avoid the pitfalls of style mistakes, perhaps by trying to acquire (or keep) your own.
Being elegant is a matter of choice, but above all, awareness.. I would be tempted to avoid overly depressing revelations, but there are at least three basic truths you need to know:
1) For guests, it is not a matter of competition with the bride. It’s a lost race from the start.
2) Excesses turn any quality into a disadvantage. All time.
3) “All black” is not elegant, at least boring, at most – cuttlefish ink.
GFB instructions: Everyone knows that class is not water, because many people prefer champagne.
Stay on the palette
It should be taught in elementary school right after the alphabet: there is a color scheme. There are colors that magically work on our complexion, making us sublime and completely beautiful, making us shine like the stars in the sky, and allowing us to shine with their light. Just as, on the other hand, there is no shortage of shadows catapulting us into the abyss of the corpse-of-no-return.
Try to stay within the colors you are actually given and everything will look fabulous, remembering that lively is not necessarily synonymous with inelegant, but that mixing too many colors is dangerous, you are not a Rubik’s Cube! It should always be said that the best color is the irises of others when they are scrutinizing you.
GFB instructions: If you are waiting for the current season to choose an outfit, remember that 98.33% of other guests will do the same. If you don’t want to risk being all dressed the same, pick up clothes from past seasons or go shopping in your best friend’s closet.
Accessories but honest
Some looks are completely incomplete without accessories, especially for women: bags, shoes and jewelry can spoil even the most strict outfit.
3 + 1 GFB instructions for her:
1) A particularly bright dress takes on more elegance with shoes and bags that match one of the shades of the dress, but in a dustier shade.
2) To soften the contrasts of any outfit, nude shoes and bags are ideal.
3) For elegant occasions, a small bag, preferably a precious one, is always more luxurious than a large one.
4) “Important” jewelry (always around the perimeter, which does not look like a Christmas tree)
June) are divine in the presence of more minimalist outfits. If, on the other hand, you choose extremely elaborate outfits with lace, embroidery, or special appliqués, limit the number of stones to… one.
Giambattista Valley
Christian Louboutin
Pisan diamonds
3 + 1 GFB instruction to it:
1) Jeans are forbidden at weddings by divine decree.
2) For informal looks, a shirt with a stand-up collar is allowed, as long as it is made of natural fabric and does not shine at all.
3) A shirt with cufflinks gives you one thousand three hundred and thirty three style points per nanosecond.
4) A man who wears shoes without socks makes every woman think of destructive smells. Know that.
Kenzo
Pisan diamonds
Shoes
“I don’t know who invented high heels, but all women owe a lot to him.” When she began with these words, Marilyn Monroe, of course, did not have before her eyes herself in stilettos, walking for hours in a gravel garden. Those damned pebbles stick all over the place, drilling through even the toughest soles, and it’s hard to fix the stability problem from that height.
However, I think she imagined herself wearing the same shoes as she plunged her heel into the manicured lawn at her current location, or just before venturing up the thousand thousand steps of the magnificent staircase of the castle chosen by her friends, to celebrate the wedding. I’m saying you haven’t even been to Machu Picchu!
In this, men have an easy life. On the other hand, for women, finding the right shoes to match the outfit for the reception is probably the most important choice after choosing a WhatsApp status. Yet the choice of shoes is one of the most underestimated moments when it comes to preparing for an appointment.
Here are 5 defining questions to ask yourself:
1) Are the shoes suitable for the party venue?
2) OK, they are crazy, but from 1 to 10 what is their degree of comfort (which in this case is measured
with the number of minutes in a row that you think you can smile without showing colic)
3) Are they easy to pair with other outfits (since you might need them soon)?
4) Are they affordable or will you have to take out a mortgage with your sister?
5) Does the height of the heel make it possible to replace shoes No. 1 with pair No. 2 in case of photon pain from an incipient bladder, without turning the long skirt into a long one with a train?
Jimmy Choo
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GFB instructions: If you are not used to high heels, beware of late attempts dedicated to wedding celebrations. The unfamiliar staggering gait on stilts can make you look more like a T-Rex than a lady. In a word, nothing particularly seductive.
Finally, if you want to be remembered for your elegant style, do not allow yourself to taste mistakes that you will never forgive others who obviously do not have a minimum of good taste!
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Source: Elle